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The Great Parent-Trap
For as long as I can remember I’ve had an affinity for being around/with people who can match me in terms of my ‘get shit done, be responsible’ attitude.
I often dreamed of having a partner who may be as OCD as I am about cleaning (and knows the toilet paper needs to absolutely come from the top haha), enjoy hosting dinner parties where we showcase our love for cooking or knowledge of the arts. I thought I might find someone who would be as handy as I am around the house, or if not, more within their own niche market. Yet many of my partners throughout life have always needed an emotional/mental/or financial leg up, shoulder to lean on or extended support, provided by me.
As I’ve said before, I do suffer from RBF but inside I am a soft soul and still try to be thoughtful in my actions. Once you tell me your favorite meal, I will most certainly attempt to learn and perfect it. I even go steps further and will help pick out your attire, remind you to get haircuts, push extra veggies on your plate and talk with you about your hopes and fears, hoping to soothe you if I can.
Looking back, I must bear some of the responsibility…
Can I call you Mommy?
Unfortunately many people find themselves in such a situation. Many of my relationships have fallen into the unhealthy behaviors of a parent/child…
